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[Girl] Give me your fucking number man
[Austen] All right, just get on my back, we'll go
[Austen] We're going this way
[Austen] Have you lied to me yet again?
You develop these qualities, these skills, these mindsets, this knowledge about pulling over time
So don't stress out if you're not immediately pulling cuties overnight
If you're a beginner this video is probably not for you
But if you're more intermediate/advanced, start applying some of the concepts that I'm going to outline here and you'll see your game
skyrocket
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So you've found a girl who's right for that night and you also have some plans, but how do you use those plans?
For that girl
And
What you have to do is, throughout the interaction
You'll figure out what type of girl you're dealing with
If it's a German flight attendant who's partying in Vegas and just wants an extension of the fun
You can just say yeah, there's more fun in my hotel room and lead for that
If she for example is a pothead you could just say yeah, I've got a joint in my place, if she's more health-conscious
Oh my god, this fucking juicer is amazing. And then Universal ones that you can use on almost any girl
Especially if you have those shorter pulls towards the end the night
Are, after party, I have an amazing view from my place of the entire city, and I have food
And whatever the girl likes for food, you can just lead to that
Barbecue. Oh my god. This most succulent pork rib. Oh, it's just so amazing
What if I was just to like
You know, dangle this in front of you, would you would you want that? And she,
She may say like man, I'll follow you to the end of the earth for something like that. There you go
So you have the plan. Now, how do you seed for this plan?
I drop these little statements in, over time. So let's say this interactions 60 minutes long, you know from the beginning
I'm saying like: oh my god, there's this fucking epic rooftop barbecue nearby. It's amazing. You got to check it out. Oh, really?
Where is it? Dadada, she asks, and then I just drop it for a while. She's aware of it and
Yeah, man. I'm just I'm kind of excited to get out of here because
You know, my friends after party just gonna be so epic
That's 20 minutes in, maybe 40 minutes in you talk about it more, you get the friends the friends know about it
And then later on you say yeah, we're going in five minutes. You guys should come boom
They're like, okay and then toward the end of that 60 minutes that 90 minutes. Yo guys
Let's go, boom, and just lead the group
With the seeding you're mentioning things that you can do at your place
Or at her place or somewhere that's an intermediate venue
So for example, if you're intermediate venue is a taco place, the best tacos you will ever have in your life
Oh my god, this carnitas is just mind-blowing
Maybe show pictures, I often pull it up on Google Maps and just show pictures of the place and they're like
Oh my god
That looks so good right now. The contrast of seeding is that if I was just like, guys we're going to a rooftop barbecue right now
They don't even hear what I'm saying. They don't know what's going on
And it's harder to pull because in their mind they've never heard of this before
So I paint the picture in their mind over the course of the interaction to who, what, when, where, why
Of where we're going, what we're doing, all of that so that when I lead for it, it makes sense
So she's having an emotionally
Amazing time with you. She's enjoying your company. You're making her laugh
You know, you're just going through all this range of emotions with her, but you do need to fulfill some logical requirements
So you need to tell her reasons why she should come with you and also reasons why she doesn't need to stay there
So an example of this could be, oh check out the view from my place
Okay? This is one of the best views you could ever see
It's just like amazing and then on top of that, you know
There's no reason you need to stay, because you can always just come back in
Right?
Or why don't you just shoot your friends the message of where we're at, the address, and then they'll come
So you tell her why she should come and the reasons why she shouldn't stay. Maybe the music sucks
Like this place is gonna close anyway, things like that. So when she has these logical reasons, she knows where you're going
You've see the idea, you've picked the right girl. You basically need to lead
Okay? You need to lead and how are you leading? Are you leading with logic? Oh, we're going there. It's right over there
It's five minutes. I don't know. No, you're leading with fun and emotion
They see me rollin
They hatin
Control and when they try to catch me ride
So it's like this light chatting as you go home, this cascade of positive emotions. If she feels like
Like this
Without you. And then she feels like, oh my god, when you're around, she wants that and she craves that
Second thing with leading, is that you have to have the 100% belief that it will happen
If you're unwavering in your belief, right?
If you're certain that it will happen. It is more likely to happen. So example was, in Vegas
So much randomness happened. We lost these girls at a certain point. This is what I was on bootcamp with a student
We lost these two girls at a certain point
I found them outside of the venue
They had been with some other guys for two hours and they were gonna go up to their penthouse to, you know,
Hang out with them, right?
So they had, they were dead set on going there and we had to kind of change that plan
We had to distract, we had to persist, we had to lead we had to speak with certainty
We had to build up their emotions, one girl, like, she she cut her finger on her phone
So she was bleeding, we had to deal with that
We had to deal with her sore feet, we had to deal with everything, but we had the 100% belief that would happen
There's so much chaos
Pulled to the hotel room, boom, done
Okay? So, have the belief that it will happen
Thirdly, you need to lead physically, whether it's arm and arm, hand in hand
You have to lead her physically. Bring her to where you're going, right?
Don't just assume that she's just gonna like, you know be there if you just say hey
Let's meet at this place, no. Just lead physically and lead with her in your arm
Right here, nose
We're going this way
And you should be moving her around throughout the night, so that she gets comfortable with you leading
If you haven't done that, that's gonna be an issue
So, you need to bounce her from, let's say where you're meeting herm to the bar then
Downstairs maybe to some outside fire area, then to the front, then outside
Then walking with her down the street, then to a cab, then to your place, then inside
Then in your apartment, then in your room. So it has to be step by step like that. Okay?
It's easier for her to follow you and trust you if she's seen like
Okay, I went with him here, had a great time, went with him here, had an even better time
So logically, it makes sense to her and emotionally that she should feel good going farther with you
Also the no big deal mentality. If you think it's normal to bring a girl back, she will think it's normal
If as you're bringing a girl back, you're like, oh my god. This has never happened before
Let me check to make sure she's following. Let me check about this. Uh, I don't know. That shows that, you know
It's kind of out of the ordinary for you. As opposed to yeah, you know we can just go check out my rooftop
It should be fun. She's gonna feel comfortable because you're comfortable with it
And lastly
Even though you're persisting, you're giving time and space for her to, one talk to her friend
And also, if you're kind of persisting for it and she feels uncomfortable, you have to empathise with her situation
It's like oh, you know, you know, yeah, take your time. Take your time
You two have your girl talk. Or if you're you're pulling and it's just like ah
There's some, it's too early then give more time, empathise with her and then go for it again, and it's again
It's easier to do baby steps along the way, then get this giant investment to come all the way back
Toward the end of the night, toward when you're leading her
It has to have an element of urgency, you know? If it's just, oh you can come whenever you want
You know? Whenever
Then there's no sense that she actually needs to act. But if you say as I did on bootcamp the other night, I said, oh shit
The promoter just texted me. He says if we don't get in by 2:30, we're not gonna be allowed in
So boom, we have to go now. And that, boom, spontaneously brought them into action, right? They're like, oh shit
We should go, cool
And another component is time
So, if you are leading somewhere, always make it seem like it's easy to get there, right?
Oh, it's five minutes walk this way, you know if it's five minutes walking then, boom, it's easy
Or by car, it's five minutes by car
Also take away the downside with these things
So for example, one thing could be, if she comes out to where we are now, which is 30 minutes away from Santa Monica
How is she going to get home? Oh, you know what? Worst-case scenario, I'll drive you back or I'll get you an Uber
Then she doesn't have to think about it. Cool. I can go have fun
And then, my way home is already dealt with. And the last component I want to talk about is certainty
And authority
So you're speaking with certainty, right?
That belief that, this is what it is
That's that
And also authority, which is the right to give orders and enforce obedience
Right? So if you speak from that place of, I'm certain about this and I have the right to, you know
Deliver this and to lead us there, then people are going to follow you
If there's indecisiveness
If there's this, I don't know quality
The "Je ne sais quoi"
Then people won't follow you
Even if you don't know where you're going and you're figuring it or out on the way
Let's say you're pulling up Google Maps. You know where you're going, right? Yeah, it's just, it's literally just two minutes this way
I'm figuring it out. Yeah, it's called Joe's Pizzeria
Boom
Yeah, it's just right over here. Yeah, I got it, don't worry
Boom, you're certain about this and your authoritative about it. Yeah, we're going let's go
And so these qualities, certainty, authority, urgency, time, constraints
And taking away the downside, are elements that will help you as well. How do you learn to pull?
What is the fastest way to learn to pull?
The best thing to do is to get around people who are pulling themselves, right?
Think about, how to, this is a weird example. Cheetahs, how do they..? They have no instinctual way to hunt
They don't know, you can't just birth a cheetah. It's on its own and then it just hunts. It doesn't happen that way
What happens is, the mother cheetah
Basically, it'll bring the baby cheetah dead rabbits, and then it'll show it and be like, boom, pounce
And then like the baby cheetah is like, meh
And it like, pounces on it. And then over time, she brings larger and larger animals
And then by the time the cheetah is like this big, she brings a half-dead like antelope. That's just like
And then the baby cheetah like, she's like, go attack it like this
It attacks it and then over time, and then usually the antelope gets away
So the mother cheetah just has to drag it back there. Just wow horrible for the antelope
But over time it learns how to like, attack these injured antelopes and then
After like a very, very long process, the antelopes is just like running wild and the moms like hunting with the antelope
But with her baby and then the baby finally gets to the point where just like hunting
The antelope itself and then it ends up going on its own and just
You know doing it
So get around people who are the mother cheetahs with pulling. Get around the people who are doing it a lot
Kind of get into the vibe, pull with them, allow them to lead the pull and be like, okay
I understand what's happening at these different stages, and then attempt it yourself
If everyone you're hanging out with
Doesn't game, doesn't pick up girls, thinks it's weird
That's going to infiltrate into you. The law of osmosis
You're the average of the five people you spend most time with it. Like basically you absorb who they are
If you're hanging out with people who are always pulling, you'll be pulling with them and you'll learn that way
Hey guys, hope you enjoyed part two, part three is the most critical part of all and it's only covered in Austen Summers Academy
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Your objection handling and what you do when you're actually home with the girl
And on top of wisdom that's taken me years to acquire myself
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Stories to tell her that will awaken every girl's inner slut
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Boom, boom, done