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The Best Me is Yet to Be and I Will Find it.
And the beauty of that is that it can start at any time and it can start at any age. Right. So
this would be amazing if you were seven years old and I think it's easy for
children to think the best is yet to come and the best me is yet to be and
then on up into school and then in your first career and your second career and
your eighth career. No matter what age you are the best me is yet to be and I will
find it. Living life with unknown in front of you but expecting always
expecting the best. Always expecting great things and that can come from
having great things happen so I think it really helps to have a win and
so I have been in a place in my life where I was stacking up some losses
things really weren't going all that great I had my career my job moved to a
different city I was getting a divorce my dogs were sick I had some rental
property with some problems and I really needed a win, I needed
a win like really bad. It was hard for me at that time to see that the best was
yet to be to think that this isn't how it is like in the movie with Jack
Nicholson when he burst into the psychiatrist's office and he said turns
to the people and he says you ever think this is the best it's ever gonna get? I have been
in a place maybe I stayed there too long maybe I didn't stay there long enough
but I've been in a place where I thought that was as good as it was gonna get.
Well I really have been there but to continue to see and to work on by
reading books on how to keep putting one foot in front of the other and then
concentrating on the wins so I think it's always good when one part of your
life is going well you've got your career you've got your your marriage
your relationships your health and when all those are chugging on all cylinders
and going great then maybe it's easy to read these books and
implement these ideas but to do that when things are not so great. Right and I
think it's also key to not look too far into your past, especially for
negative things in the past or to forward to the future either but just
try to be in the now, because right now if you're having a bad now you can
change that instantly. You really can I promise you you can get in a happier
place almost immediately. Give yourself 30 seconds attitude adjustment it works
it works it does so everything is a choice whether you believe it or not if
you continue to have negative feelings that's a choice it's also a choice to
say look I'm putting this to bed right now I'm gonna stop having these negative
emotions and I'm going to change myself for the better and the rest of this day
is going to be good. Have you ever done that before where you were going down a
road the day was getting bad and you said no you know this this day is going
to be good and then the rest of the day ends up good. It really is a choice. There
was a time after my divorce when I actually thought that was as good as it
was going to get and I actually had this thought that I really wasn't going to be
any happier than I was and of course I was never going to remarry, never. I did remarry. But one
thing that helped me a lot was being around other people I had to move for my
job and my mother said when you get there I want you to promise me that you
will say yes to every invitation you get and so it's kind of like that Yes man
yes man yes man. I didn't really understand how important that advice was until I
started getting invitations that I really wanted to say no to, so some
neighbors were getting together and having a neighbor's dinner the whole
street was going out as a group we ended up with about 25, no we had
about 28 people that first time we did it and I remember thinking I don't
really feel like doing this I don't I just want to go to work I just want to
come home from work you know when I get through work I'm gonna do a great job at
work because you know by God that's got to work something in my life has to be
going well and by God it's gonna be this career and it was the career did
definitely benefit me and carry things along when other parts of my life
weren't going that well I poured a lot into the career. I had a lot of time to
do it. I had an invitation to neighbors dinner so I went had a great time made
me feel really good but what was so cool is I got to know some of the neighbors
so the next thing is I get an invitation to a football party and I had the exact
same first thought, I'm not going to that I don't feel like doing that I'm gonna
work in the yard I just want to be alone I want to have my hands in the dirt I
want to work in the yard you know that's my therapy and then I just want to be
left alone but then I kept thinking well I promised my mom that I would say yes
to all these requests, so I went to the football party and I met some really nice fun
people there but what was interesting was you know these invitations when you
keep saying yes then it leads to other invitations and then I actually ended up
having a party for all these people at the house which was really cool but I
think what affected me maybe the most was you know not only getting out there
and socializing being single for the first time in a long time but
also a lot of them were married the second time around now a lot of them
were married the first time around but a lot of them a lot of them were married
the second time around and so then I was noticing that.
When you've been married the first time around you don't really notice all the
second time or how many of them there are out there, I had
that revelation myself and actually after my divorce I pictured
my life going in one of two directions, I pictured myself on the negative side I
pictured myself in the apartment watching TV getting really depressed not
having any friends and my business going downward and then
I pictured another path I pictured a path where my business flourished and I
pictured a path where I was meeting new people and getting out there and doing
things and having fun and it took a lot of focus in especially in that first
month I would say to really settle into that but the more I did it on a daily
basis an hour-by-hour basis it it was a choice every moment because when I would
go get Chinese food I interacted with the the sweet lady that was making my
Chinese food and she became a really good friend of mine and Holly actually
met her later on. I think her name was Lynn and it was so hilarious the first time you took me in there we got Chinese food
and we actually got it to go takeout but I remember her
reaction she said Oh hello I am so glad to see you! Who is this? I am glad to see you with a woman! I think she thought I wasn't wasn't dating it was Holly just happened
dating. Holly just happened to be the first girl I had taken in there. I was not the first girl he dated, but it was it was refreshing to me
to know that this was something that it was special that I was getting taken to
the Chinese takeout. That's true but those experiences just enriched your
life and you know human connection is a beautiful thing and if you can make
someone else's day it's gonna make your day too!
It's just the reciprocal effect of human nature it's a wonderful thing to give
love and receive love from your community from your friends from new
friends and meeting new people and getting out there
it improves every aspect of your life improving your social life will improve
your business life will improve your finances. It's great. That's awesome,
the life you imagined you saw two roads at that time you could see the negative
road and the positive road the you know where your business was doing great or
where you were watching a lot of TV and your business wasn't doing so
great and the first step was to actually realize I'm creating this. I see these
two paths for my life and the second step I think was choosing one. It was.
Having the courage to choose one but then how did you make that
happen? I think you're absolutely right the first choice was choosing the more
positive path of getting out there. Once you start making that choice things
start to come to you, the universe has turned and things start coming to you
one thing that came to me was I was in a bookstore in Books-a-Million looking for
a book to give me some extra help the book Change Your Life in Seven Days just
jumped off the shelf. It's probably the only time I've ever had that experience
where a book is just like buy me buy me buy me. Change Your Life in Seven Days by
Paul McKenna, it's a great book and after I bought that book I took seven days one
chapter each of the seven days and each day I could feel myself becoming more
and more positive and more and more and and it just felt great by the end of the
seventh day I felt like I was on fire it was like I can do anything and still to
this day I use that book quite a bit there's so many great tools and
exercises in that book, I highly recommend it. If you're in a place where
you feel like you're in a turning point in your life and you need a more
positive direction to go in, go buy that book you know right now shut the video
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It really did set me on fire and I couldn't recommend it more. It helped
you make the choice and what was interesting when Jim and I met I had
already moved to a better place I was ready, I had already made a lot of
positive changes in my life had already decided that the best me is yet to be
and I will find it. I already was heading there I was happy
everything was going really great for me when I met you and so then the first
thing you wanted me to do was read Change Your Life in Seven Days and I was like no. And you were like why not, I love
that book and I said I don't want to change my life I don't want to read that
book I don't want to change my life but you know that the thing about that book
is that it has so many things in it for every aspect of your life anything that
can come up or helping you move away from the past move away from bad things
and not carry baggage with you into your future. Right. and has great tools for
that it has tools for boosting your immune system I mean it really has daily
life living skills in it and I'm really glad I read it even though I did not
want my life to change I was like it it just got really good I don't want it to
change. Well you make a great point even if things are going great for you could
they be greater I have to think they could be! Read the book the entire book
is adaptable to whatever you want it to be it takes engagement it takes a week
seven days but you can do it in one week and something that's as fast as one week
to turnaround your life and to put yourself in a more positive direction
that's it is amazing! And this is not a book review the thing about Zippy Vibe
is to take the experiences we've had from the books we read and the way we've
implemented them in our lives to not only overcome adversity that has come our way
everybody's life adversity in it I don't care who you are
and you've got to overcome adversity. Move on stay in the now but how do you
do all that stuff? So we have read a lot of books including that one and many
many others and hundreds and how we've implemented those into our lives
and the results we've received is the whole reason for this channel so if you
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what we're here for that's what we're gonna do is explain how all of these
tools because we didn't even create these tools we implement them we
implement them we're getting great results every aspect of our lives is
going really well and and that's not to say it couldn't change tomorrow it could
but we are excited about the future the best me is yet to be and I will find
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