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- Hey everybody, Daniel Fusco here.

Welcome to today's Two Minute Message.

Unfortunately, we live in a day and age

where divorce is all to common,

whether it's yourself or your parents or loved ones

or friends that when a marriage breaks up,

a family breaks up, and it hurts,

how do you deal with the pain of that?

Unfortunately, many of us know what this is like.

First, the first key is to forgive.

First you have to forgive yourself for the things

that your were a part of in whatever happened.

Second you have to forgive the other person.

I've always heard it said that not forgiving somebody,

harboring unforgiveness, is like drinking poison,

and hoping that the other person dies.

You're the one who gets hurt by that unforgiveness.

Now I realize that divorce happens for

very justifiable reasons.

Marriages are not anywhere near

what they could be, but we need to forgive.

Second, we need to figure out how to integrate

such pain into our lives in a way that is not

debilitating for us going forward.

Forgiveness is a part of it, but it's also coming to terms

with what it's been and being able to

put it into your life in way that you can move forward

where it doesn't hold you back.

And third, you have to keep going on,

you have to go forward, and you have to

embrace what happens next.

If you allow the pain of the past to be lived in the future,

it will cause you not to embrace exactly what's

going on in your life right now

and you don't get to enjoy that.

So listen, we want to respond to these messages.

We just want to hear a message, we want to respond to it.

So first, share this message.

Unfortunately, everybody's been impacted by divorce

in some way and it's heartbreaking.

So we want to be able to move on from it.

And then next, I want you to shout out

to people in your life who's marriages have

stood all the trials and tests.

People who's marriages you look up to

because we want to really celebrate when

God's does an amazing work in a family

where even in thick and thin, up and down,

good and bad, that they've been

able to work through it together.

So tag them in those comments to be able to say,

"I'm so grateful for the witness

of your marriage in my life."

God bless you guys, I'll see you real soon.