I looked at how young people connected and walked down the path to marriage.
I talked to people in their middle ages.
Some marriages were thriving and other marriages are in a "blasé" kind of place, and others
were divorcing.
I questioned everything and everyone I could.
I asked, "Why relationships work and why they don't?!"
So my search determined, divorce kills!
It tears two people apart who once loved each other.
It rips at the fabric that holds a family together and it murders the hearts of children.
So I said, "Enough is enough.
I need to do something about this!"
It was then, in my adversity and my pain that I found my PURPOSE.
I found my mission and I found what really motivates me.
I will make it my mission to have a positive effect on 1 million marriages by talking to
people and showing them that there are marriages and relationships that can and do work.
And I was determined to provide the answers and show how relational unions can work.
So my breakthrough came and I began to change.
In the moment of breakthrough, I've got the lessons for myself as well for the others.
So, I sat down and wrote the answers to those questions.
I wrote my first book, 'Eyes Wide Open.'
"Transform Blind Love For A Long Lasting Marriage"
It's the ultimate guide for helping two people to come together before they marry because
it's essential.
They have to be on the same page!
You may ask, "What I do?"
What I really enjoy doing is helping two people come together, and get to know each other
on a deeper level.
I have them take responsibility for their poor behavior in the past and poor rational
skills and also help them develop their communication skills.
I not only have a message.
I've created a blueprint for "The Invincible Marriage".
"My story, my journey and my life lessons are a gift to the world."
At the end of the day, I would not wish this experience on anybody.
However, I am grateful and I am thankful for this experience because it gives me a platform
to share with young people who are considering marriage and the path they walk on and what
they have to do.
Today, I'm leaving you with four (4) points.
1.The person you choose to marry will have the greatest effect on your happiness or your
unhappiness more than any other decision you make over the course of your lifetime.
2.
Don't rush into marriage.
Remember, haste makes waste!
Take 6-8 seasons to really get to know and understand each other before marriage.
Because you'll learn a lot in those six day seasons.
3.Learn the art of empathic communication and how to get behind somebody and understand
what they're feeling.
4.
Make that person #1 in your life.
Love and serve that person with everything you have.
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