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For anybody going through a divorce at the moment, I'm sure that what I'm about

to say is going to sound pretty familiar - I don't think I'm telling you anything new.

But, one thing I realized the other day when we were working with one of our clients was that,

Divorce is really like somebody losing a limb,

or a hand, more specifically.

If you lose your left hand as we've all heard, the right hand will learn to compensate over time

You will learn to do more with your right hand, or your right hand will

strengthen and become more dexterous

and you will become more practiced than using that right hand.

You also want to use muscles that you may not have used before

in order to do those things.

Divorce is very similar to that.

You've lost your left hand, the future that you had planned

the future that you were looking at and working towards is now gone so it's

now going to be a matter of you learning those tasks, relearning how to use some

of those muscles taking responsibility for some of that planning yourself.

That can be really daunting, it can be really intimidating

so I think I would encourage everybody at it,

that's going through this process to do is,

firstly, take a step back -- you are not alone and you will get better and things will improve .

Take a step back, take a moment, and go on find somebody to

help you work through the process.

We recommend somebody in an arm's length,

friends and family, bless them.. They may not always be across all the

ins and outs and intricacies of such a big life change and obviously

their priority more about making sure that you are looked after in the moment.

Whereas a really good adviser, what they will do is,

they will map out your future

and make sure that you can get back on that right track.

They'll do it in a really sensitive and important way

so they can get back on track as quickly as possible.

A little bit like losing a hand.

I'm sure there's more of

that metaphor, that analogy, that we can work with

But I thought that's a good one to start with.

Thanks a lot!

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'90 Day Fiance': Jonathan Can't Wait to Divorce Fernanda – Wants to Sign Papers ASAP - Duration: 5:30.

90 Day Fiance celeb Jonathan Rivera is ready to divorce Fernanda Flores.

He seems keen to solidify his bachelor status again, starting off with legally ending his marriage.

90 Day Fiance: Jonathan Rivera Looking Forward To Divorce From Fernanda Flores Looks like Jonathan Rivera is 100 percent done with Fernanda Flores.

The 90 Day Fiance alum reveals his desire to divorce his young Mexican wife as soon as possible.

In response to a fan comment, Jonathan bluntly admits he just can't wait to legally separate from Fernanda.

Apparently, the realtor hunk has been contemplating about the idea ever since they called it quits last year.

Jonathan Says He'll 'Sign Paperwork' With No Hesitation With Jonathan Rivera and Fernanda Flores' nasty split,

it's inevitable for the two of them to seek a divorce.

Aside from the fact that they'll have more opportunities to meet someone new, it'll also free them from further legal issues.

However, it is worth noting that Jonathan was the first to bring up the idea of divorce.

In fact, the 90 Day Fiance dude claims he'll sign the paperwork as soon as possible.

At this rate, it won't take long for Jonathan to officially file for divorce.

If that happens, then Fernanda would definitely be in a tough position.

90 Day Fiance: Jonathan Hints About Divorce In January Interestingly, Jonathan Rivera hinted about his plans to divorce his new bride Fernanda Flores as early as January.

The 90 Day Fiance alum revealed he and Fernanda haven't spoken since December.

At that time, Jon admitted that he's already looking into his next move with regards to their marriage.

Many assume that he's already considering legal options to cut ties with his estranged wife for good.

Jonathan Devotes Himself To His Career Meanwhile, Jonathan Rivera seems to be more career-driven as of late.

The 90 Day Fiance star has been busy with his job as a realtor, as well as running his scarves business, Dreemlyne.

Fernanda Flores' ex-husband even admitted to the public that he considers real estate his true love.

He also declared he's in a relationship with it, adding that he's basically "married to the game." Fans of Jonathan are probably familiar with his passion for the said field,

In fact, he quickly became one of the best realtors in North Carolina. even before meeting Fernanda.

Apparently, Jonathan's career is doing so well that he refused to leave everything behind even if it means ruining his relationship with Fernanda.

"I couldn't take giving everything and still being stripped of the things I loved," he said in a previous post.

90 Day Fiance: Fernanda Enjoys Carefree Life In Chicago As for Fernanda Flores, she continues to live her best life in The Windy City.

The 90 Day Fiance babe seems to be working on her career as a model as evident on her social media posts.

Jonathan Rivera's former wife is also working on her looks.

Recently, Fernanda undergoes a non-surgical rhinoplasty to get a more defined nose bridge and pointed tip.

Aside from getting a nose job, the reality star is also busy improving her figure.

She regularly posts photos and videos of herself working out at the gym.

Interestingly, Fernanda has yet to open up about her thoughts on divorcing Jonathan.

Many are now wondering if she is also down with legally ending their marriage.

After all, she publicly confirmed that she tried to reconcile with him but to no avail.