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- [Woman] Adam.

- Yes?

- Have you cheated on your wife,

and are you still cheating?

- I'm most definitely not still cheating

but I did cheat, yes.

- [Woman] How many times have you cheated?

- Oh, the...

(audience jeers)

- Can you count it on one hand?

- Yes, I had a physical thing with one girl.

- [Woman] Mm hm.

- One girl.

- That's all you gonna claim today?

- That's all there was.

She is saying that I'm talking to women

in an inappropriate way, would be considered cheating,

which I agree, by her own definition, she's cheated.

- Well, what's the definition of cheating?

- Multiple times.

- Yeah, well if you're gonna accuse me of

talking to other people, in inappropriate way.

- I have not cheated on you multiple times.

Adam, you put that in your head.

- You didn't sit on people's laps and stuff

when you were working at the bar.

- Oh, wait a minute.

You're gonna say, wait,

cause I had a boyfriend that said that one time,

that if you sit on another guy's lap, that means you're,

what are you talking about, were you out at a party,

was it crowded, or she sat on his lap in a sexual way?

- She was working at a bar, and this particular day,

she dressed up in a baby doll costume,

and she said her and another girl were doin' it.

It was like, a girl thing.

- It was a theme night, is what it was.

- There was no other girl dressing up

in a baby doll costume, other than my wife.

- That's not even...

- Maranda, would you call that cheating?

- No.

- [Vivica] Okay, you guys were just at work,

and that was just...

- Can we clarify what cheating is?

What it means for both of you.

What does it mean for you, Adam?

- Having sex with another person.

- Cheating's even, if you're sending naked pictures

to somebody that you don't know.

- Okay so, cheating, is when a person with

a significant other, that performs any type of

intimate act with another person,

that's not their significant other.

- Adam has the Bill Clinton definition of cheating.

I did not have sex with that woman.

(audience laughs and applauds)

I'm sorry Adam, I just had to get that in.

- You're fine.

- But Adam, are you sending naked pictures to women?

- Oh I certainly have.

(audience jeers)

Have you sent naked pictures to men?

- Like who?

- Like any man you sent naked pictures to?

- Adam, I love how quickly you admitted it,

and then gonna toss it on over to Maranda real quick,

like oh she did it too.

- Just because she snow shoveled it at me,

and I wanted to give it back to her,

she totally did it.

- This is the way that it normally happens, though.

I come to you and I want to talk to you about something

and then instead of confronting and talking with me,

you automatically go straight towards the throat.

And you're like, well you did this.

- Well you did.

- Okay, yeah, the girl that he cheated on me with,

yeah I texted her, I called her.

I wanted to have communication with her,

I wanted to know why, after all of these years,

why she thought it was okay to be with my husband.

Why?

Was it because she had something against me?

- [Vivica] Did you talk to her?

- No, she completely avoided me.

Her husband contacted me.

(audience gasps)

- The plot thickens.

Her husband?

- Correct, yes.

So her husband and I, we were talkin' about it.

And her husband wanted to get back at her.

Well, what would any female do?

If they knew that they were gonna go through

their man's phone because they're afraid

that they're talking to the woman of the man

that they just had an affair with.

Oh yeah, I sent all kinds of naked pictures.

- Oh.

- But Maranda, you sent the naked pictures to who?

- To her husband.

(audience laughs)

- Of course, you know, I mean come on,

like that was...

- Maranda, you have an 11 year old son, and...

- I know but at the same time,

I knew that she was gonna see them,

and do you know what she said to him, or her husband?

She said, oh anybody but Maranda.

- [Audience Member] Oh wow.

- [Woman] And where does your son,

how does your son deal with all of this?

- He didn't know that this part was going on,

with naked pictures and stuff.

- [Woman] What part does he know?

- He knows, he doesn't know the grimy details

but he is aware of the situation.

- How does that possibly happen?

- [Woman] An 11 year old.

- We don't argue quietly and we don't

find a safe, quiet place to do it.

- [Woman] Does he ever get involved?

- He has.

- Have the fights turned physical?

- [Woman] He was texting one of your mistresses, right?

- He was texting the girl that he had

an affair on me with.

- [Adam] Yep.

- Wait, wait, wait.

- Okay, whoa, whoa, whoa, we want to make this clear.

The 11 year old son...

- [Woman] Your son.

- Your son texted the mistress?

- Yes.

For more infomation >> Woman Will Divorce Her Husband If He Cheats Again - Duration: 4:37.

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Intro to Soc: Correlates to Divorce - Duration: 4:25.

Hi this is Pat Johnson, your sociology instructor. In this mini lecture we're

going to look at factors that are correlated to a greater likelihood of

divorce. The first factor that our author mentions

where there is a strong relationship between factor and the likelihood of

getting divorced is if your parents were divorced. Now this is most likely because

we have seen this happen in our own families and we see it as an option in

our own marriages. Another factor that many of my students just don't want to

believe exists is that premarital cohabitation,

in other words living together and engaging in sexual intercourse prior to

marriage, is a correlate, is positively correlated with a greater chance of

divorce. Those people who wait to live together and wait to engage in sexual

intercourse until after marriage are less likely to get divorced.

Interestingly enough, this correlation probably has to do with the value system

those people who don't cohabitate (and) who do not engage in sexual intercourse prior

to marriage usually have stronger religious values than those people who

cohabitate before marriage. And we do know that those with strong religious

values are more likely to see marriage as something permanent and divorce as

not an option. So cohabitating prior to marriage is correlated to getting

divorced. Those people who have children prior to

marrying are more likely to get divorced. this is just another one of those

factors that is strongly correlated with the likelihood of divorce. Those who

marry at an early age are more likely to divorce. So people who are married in

their late teens have a slightly greater chance of divorcing than those who marry

let's say in their late 20s. Those who have a childless marriage are

more likely to get divorced. One of the reasons for this factor is that

sometimes people stay married because of the children. In other words, they don't

want to put their children through a divorce and those who are childless

don't have to worry about that factor. Also, people who are in childless

marriages often have both of the spouses working outside the home. They are more

independent financially and don't stay together in an unhappy marriage for the

reason of financial stability they're more likely to get divorced when things

get really rough. Finally, people who are in a low-income economic status are more

likely to divorce and this may have to do with the greater stress that comes

about with being in the low-income bracket. What I want you to remember is

something earlier in our semester. If you're getting a little maybe depressed

because you find that you fit into some of those characteristics-- maybe you did

marry young, maybe you did cohabitate prior to marriage, maybe your parents are

divorced. Remember, our main rule about correlation. Correlation does not mean

causation. Just because two factors are correlated with each other doesn't mean

that one causes the other. Marriage takes a lot of hard work. It takes sticking

with it and a lot of understanding and choosing the right person in who to

marry so don't think that just because some of those factors are in your life

that you're necessarily going to get a divorce from your spouse.