This is Couples Court with the Cutlers.
This is the case of Barker vs Davis.
You all have been married for six years
and you actually dated for 20 years before that.
Yes, your honor.
Yes.
So you've been together a total of 26 years.
Yes.
Yes, your honor.
BARKER: Yes, sir.
Okay, you have five kids together.
Okay, Ms. Barker, why have you brought your husband to court today?
I believe that my husband is cheating,
I have my divorce papers.
If I found out that he's cheating
DAVIS: I'm not cheating.
I'm leaving him.
Wait, so you already have your divorce papers drawn out?
BARKER: I'm ready, yes.
You're ready?
I'm ready.
I'm not cheating.
If it comes out that he's cheating
the papers get filed.
I'm leaving him.
KEITH CUTLER: You're gone?
Gone!
I'm fed up. I'm tired.
DANA: You have hit the wall.
Hit the wall.
I haven't been cheating, and I love her.
And we don't have to get a divorce. We can work this out.
It's a misunderstanding somewhere.
I love her.
There is a misunderstanding, but I want to make sure you understand this.
DAVIS: Yes, sir.
She has got divorce papers in hand.
You realize what's on the line here today?
Yes, your honor.
DANA: A quarter century of life together.
My life with her. Our life together.
And you say you have been faithful.
DAVIS: Yes, your honor.
BARKER: He's lying.
I'm a good man.
I take care of my family and I take care of her.
How are you living? What's it like in your home right now?
We don't even sleep together.
DANA: How long has this been going on?
Sometimes I sleep in the bed
and he sleeps on the couch, or he sleeps on the couch
I sleep in the bed, I don't want him touching me.
How long have you not wanted your husband not to touch you?
It's probably been about six good months.
Six months, maybe a year.
Six long months.
He don't come home at night.
So, is it safe to say the passion of your marriage is gone?
It's gone.
It's not gone.
It's gone.
The past is not gone.
In my heart, it's gone.
All right, so, when you say the passion is gone
there was a point you had passion.
A lot of it.
What was it like when you were in love?
And passionate about each other.
Everything was great. We would do things together.
He would bring me gifts home.
He would wine and dine me.
He would always tell me he loved me, how beautiful I am.
I don't get that no more your honor.
I don't get that no more.
It's changed.
It ain't the same.
So what did you love about him?
BARKER: I loved everything about him.
When we first met, I met Bernard
at a club, I brought him home with me.
and he never left.
He stayed. He's been with me ever since.
To be honest, he's been with me ever since.
What club is that? Were you going fired up and you know
you just... They just ended here.
Yeah, you go to a club and you find somebody
and 26 years later, you're still with them.
I was a love club we had met up in and I had brought him home
and we'd been together ever since.
It was good, you know, in the beginning.
I love you. I love her.
You don't love me. I don't feel loved.
You say I don't come home, I won't come home to nagging.
Who wants to come home to nagging?
I want to come home to being loved.
Well, maybe I wouldn't nag if he'd come home. He don't come home.
All right, so we've got a circle going.
You don't want to come home.
He don't come home.
And when you come home, you nag him.
He came here one morning, your honor.
I was so upset and I was so mad.
He had came in, jumped straight in the shower.
I go to the shower
he got a big passion mark on the right side of his neck.
She did the passion mark.
And that's what he said. You honor, I don't suck on his...
I don't suck around his neck, your honor.
So you're telling that he had a hickey?
A hickey? On his neck?
Yes, your honor. Yes.
DANA: And you say you didn't do it?
I didn't do it.
All right.
DAVIS: Well, you did.
Who else did, your honor?
Mr. Davis?
That's what we're asking you.
DANA: I'm trying to understand that.
You tell us who did it.
She's the only one that I'm loving, in my heart. I am her husband.
It says, follow your lead.
She's not following my lead, she's just going past, disrespecting me.
Why would I follow his lead
when I done caught this man in the bed with my family member.
(CROWD GASPING)
Misunderstanding again.
Your honor, please let me tell my story.
So we get into an argument.
Instead of us butting heads, I like to take a walk
and walk it off, you know?
So I take a walk, I stay gone for about an hour, maybe an hour and a half, two hours
I come back after calming down
I got to my bedroom to see where Mr. Davis was
I check in my kids' room, Mr. Davis is in my bed with my family member.
In his boxers, your honor.
KEITH: Hold on, Ms. Barker...
He tells me that she can't get at me.
Mr. Davis, you're shaking your head, no.
Did you have sexual relations with one of your wife's family members?
No, sir. Honestly, no sir.
How did this happen?
Working third shift
that morning, I was cleaning up in the kitchen, just getting all the the chores out
in some kind of way, I dozed off and I woke up and she was under me.
When I woke up
Ms. Barker came in the room going crazy on us
and I just woke up out of my sleep, I didn't know what was happening.
Hold on, no, no wait.
Hold on. Please, please.
Go ahead, go ahead.
When you say up under you...
What is that?
Up under, beside each other, just...
She was up under.
DANA: Was she leading you on?
Your honor
No, she was laying beside me.
she was up under him.
Okay, what did you say?
He called me there. He said
he fell asleep
and when he woke up, she was there.
She's wearing sexy
little pajama pants and a sexy little spaghetti shirt.
DANA: Wait, hold on.
He's in his boxers, your honor.
And I went crazy.
And I said I'm destroyed.
KEITH: And what did you say?
Pulled her out, tried to pull her out but she wouldn't leave.
I just lost it, your honor. I lost it.
You didn't even hear his explanation?
DAVIS: No.
I didn't have time to hear it.
Because I lost it.
What now? Under you?
Hold on, did you ever ask your family member about this?
So I have a cousin that passed away. Rest in peace.
Before she passed away, she told me
that the other pet explained to her
that she felt so bad because she had slept with...
with my kid's father. He was my kid's father before he was my husband.
And it was a declaration.
Your honor, please listen to me your honor.
After I married this man
this is when it all comes out that they did have intimate sex and...
He keep lying to me though. "I haven't had sex with her."
"We didn't do anything," but I've seen it with my own eyes.
DANA: All right, hold on.
Was it that one time that they got together?
I believe it was more, your honor.
When we have family functions and stuff
they real friendly.
He made her a statement.
Made a statement to her.
"When is you gonna make me some more of that good tuna fish?"
And we're still talking about the stuff in the can, right?
That ain't the tuna I'm talking about
but that's the tuna he loving.
That's the tuna he loving.
I can't get over it, your honor. I need to know.
So this instance with the family member, it was before your wedding, right?
Do you still believe he's cheating now?
I still believe he's cheating, your honor.
Okay, so why do you think he's cheating now?
Okay, so
one morning, Bernard did not come home.
I ended up going to Bernard's mother house.
That's always his excuse, I was at my mother's house.
But I had already been at your mother's house, baby.
Since 4 o'clock that morning, waiting.
You wasn't there. He wasn't there.
Something said, walk down the street. I walked down the street
here come Mr. Davis
coming up another little street, coming on around the corner.
I say, "Mr. Davis, where you been at?"
He say, "I was locked up. I had been in jail."
I said, you're lying, I done caught them people all night.
Were you in jail?
DAVIS: No.
Okay, where were you?
The casino.
Okays.
So you were at the casino till 6:00 a.m?
Yes, that was my thing.
When we argue, and we get into it, I'm leaving.
I'm staying out. I don't wanna do it.
There's a misunderstanding somewhere.
So, Ms. Barker, you have brought a witness.
Yes.
Would the witness come to the podium please?
Would you please state your name for the court?
Hello your honor, my name is Alexa Lewis.
So what do you know about this relationship?
I just know that Sandra
goes above and beyond as a wife. Period.
And do you believe that Mr. Davis is cheating?
Yes. I seen Mr. Davis at one of the local strip clubs
I went out with one of my friends one night.
I look up, and I see Mr. Davis
and one of the strippers going to the bathroom your honor.
She's lying.
In the bathroom, your honor.
And she wasn't just going at the same time, he was going back there?
I mean, he a man and she a woman, so you know...
DANA: They actually went in together?
They was together, like, hand to hand, like...
So it wasn't that they were walking, they were holding hands?
Yes, ma'am. And they went into the restroom.
Did you see how long they stayed?
They stayed in the restroom
for about...
I know it was a long time because like six songs went by
so probably like 30 minutes.
It was probably at least 30 minutes, your honor.
You know, I gotta ask you. I got my home girl, we like this.
I would expect her to knock on that bathroom door and say, "What's up?"
Or be at the bathroom door and be like, "Dude!"
Tell me you knocked on the door and said, "What's up?"
No. No, I didn't, your honor.
When I got home that night
you better believe I woke her up and addressed her about what I'd seen that night.
Thank you for your testimony. You can have a seat.
WITNESS: Thank you.
All right, Mr. Davis, were you at the strip club?
No, sir.
So you were not at the strip club?
No, sir.
All right.
I don't know why she would say that
unless she was trying to get with me or make something happen.
What do you think? I mean, I'm honest.
There are reasons for everything.
All right, Mr. Davis, let me say this.
After you've already been accused of being with your wife's family member
I'm not sure you want to use as a defense
that your wife's friend wants to get with you also.
I don't think you want to go there.
That's right.
That's right, your honor.
The big picture is, I'm telling the truth.
He's lying, your honor.
KEITH: You're telling the truth?
That's the big picture.
But here's the thing, your wife is absotively, posulutely not buying it.
Just the big day. I'm waiting.
And we don't deserve to get the voice for our misunderstanding.
All right.
Ms. Barker. Mr. Davis.
DAVIS: Yes.
We're getting ready to find out if it was a misunderstanding.
And then you could have asked if... Your honor...
She don't hold my last name.
Quiet.
This court is getting ready to find out
DANA: If it is a misunderstanding.
Yes, ma'am.
In order to get to the bottom of this
the court has engaged the services of a licensed private investigator
Mark Henry.
Yes, your honor.
Ron, would you please escort him in?
RON: Mr. Henry.
(CROWD CLAPPING)
How are you, sir?
Good day, your honor.
How are you?
I am well, thank you.
Good to see you.
Good to see you again.
You had a member of your team
get Mr. Davis a polygraph exam, is that correct?
MARK: Yes, your honor.
DANA: Okay.
Mr. Davis was asked a series of questions, is that correct?
That is correct.
All right.
Mr. Davis was asked
since August 2011
have you had sexual intercourse with anyone
other than your wife?
What was his response to that question?
His response was no.
What did the lie detector determine?
The lie detector determined that he was being deceptive.
WITNESS: But I want in, your honor.
KEITH: Ms. Barker
(CROWD SYMPATHETIC)
I'm just done. I'm done with the marriage.
It's over. I'm done with it. It's over.
26 years is a long time.
DAVIS: That ain't the truth.
I'm done.
DAVIS: I love you baby.
I'm hurting so bad. I'm done.
DANA: Mr. Davis.
I knew he was cheating.
Hold on. Mr. Davis.
DAVIS: Yes.
DAVIS: Yes.
You say you love her.
The lie detector indicates that you are being deceptive.
But I wasn't. I'm serious.
I wasn't.
Here's the thing.
You're in court today.
Because your wife, the woman you say you love
believes that you're cheating.
Well, I haven't.
I haven't cheated on her.
Mr. Davis was asked
have you had sexual intercourse
with any of your wife's family members?
What was his response?
His answer was no.
DANA: What did the lie detector determine?
The lie detector determined that he was being deceptive.
KEITH: Mr. Davis, you're shaking your head no.
DANA: Ms. Barker...
DAVIS: No, sir.
What's going through your mind right now?
I'm just ready to go file my papers.
I'm done, it's over.
Stop crying.
It's over.
This is a 26 year relationship.
KEITH: There's a lot on the line here.
There are five kids involved
you all have this history
marriage.
You know, I think this is one that
we want to talk about a little more in chambers.
So we're gonna ask you to come back to chambers
and court is adjourned.
DAVIS: Yes.
(HAMMER HIT)
Ms. Barker, Mr. Davis
we thought it was important
because of your history, we know what having that history is and how important it is.
And we don't want y'all to throw that away.
unless you really, really, really
think about this, and want to try to talk to you and let you know
some insight from our standpoint about how you can save your relationship.
Here's the deal. There's no love without forgiveness.
Honestly, I didn't have sex. No, I didn't.
Honestly, I don't believe you, so...
I don't believe you.
If you're gonna rebuild this trust
you've got to stop finding yourself in positions
where it looks like you're doing something you're not doing.
But you've got to be in it to win it.
Yeah. I am.
But it's got to be more than words, Mr. Davis.
It's gotta be more, it has to come from here.
You talked about the heart.
Here. That's where you love.
Show her that.
But at the end of the day
you all have a hard decision to make.
And we have resources here
we want you to take advantage of them
counseling, so that y'all can move forward together
but even if you move forward separately
you've got babies. You all got to co-parent.
And there's still got to be a level of trust there.
We wish you all the best.
Thank you for coming back with us.
Thank you.
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British royal family forgive Prince Charles divorce Lady Diana 20 years ago
The monarchy in the United Kingdom
Is in the 90s in the wavering
Marital problems
Divorce and the fatal accident Prince
Does Diana's move the Royals Into the sideline
Doc but time heals wounds
Prince Charles regains his reputation despite is Camila
Prince Charles Smiles mildly
Whenever he appears in public
As does wife Camilla
Got the British heir-to-the-throne
Is now 67
His hair has become a little shabby
Camilla is 69 even she is not aging
That hardly anyone would argue
That they are two exceptionally good-looking people
But as a couple
They look relaxed easy-going
They look as if they have arrived at Hard Times have left them behind
Dr2 are currently vacationing
Probably in Scott
But the palace does not want to reveal that
Does Charles think back to the Dark Ages
His marital drama with Princess Diana
And plunge the British Monarchy into one of the worst modern crisis
Died on August 28th
1996
The dream couple was divorced that huge disaster was yet to come
Looking back
The marriage war was ugly
Brutal and rather tasteless at the time thanks to the British yellow press it became a global media event
. they were Frank interviews about adultery with a riding instructor
Intercepted phone calls
Camila gate was the speech of a year-long secret affair of the heir to the throne
Doctor question of the Cross these days was
Can someone become king
She was the third in marriage
It'll legendary television interview in late 1995
Lady died
More breathy than
Unspoken said about Camila
She was the third in the marriage
And it got a little tight
. but it was not just Camilla parker-bowles
The princess youthful and enduring love
The whole Palace took the Young
Beautiful Guyana in the criticism
Cold week
Self centered and heartless was the Royal House the sentence was to last a long time
But Diana then 34
Put it on top cleverly bringing her two boys into the game
William and Harry
Then 13 + 11
Age when boys are still wearing shorts
. and yet the question suddenly Rose in the room
If the boys were not the better King's than the father
Da da da
The marriage crisis
Have become the crisis of the monarchy
That Queen Elizabeth
The second so far The Spectator of the drama
Became active it was she who advised the sun to divorce
Got the marriage last
Did 15 years
With increasing skepticism
Even reject
The British met their monarch
Got already in 1997
Before the tragic accidental death of Diana on the streets of Paris
According to a survey by The Guardian
Held only 48% of the monarchy
Brenda Spencer
10 years earlier
It has been 77%
Charles is becoming more popular
But it should get worse
In retrospect
Marital class
Rose Warfare and divorce appear more as a Prelude
The true drama
It's late August 1997
It's Dark Night in Paris
The beautiful Diana and the Playboy Dodi al-fayed are racing away from the Papa Razzi
Got the car accelerates faster and faster with the couple
The Papa Razzi hunt behind on motorcycle
The ride becomes a death ride
The death of the princess
Shakes the British
Got the whole world is watching the Sea of flowers growing in front
The Buckingham Palace
Got the British were people who tend to hide feelings not anymore
The people it loves the queen of hearts
Janome the queen
Charles in the Royal has remained terribly stiff and wordless
As if they were none of the files in front of the palace
The British are horrified half the world is appalled
Jolly Royal house that is cold callous one does not want
But any more than a divorced
And today
Time Heals all wounds
It is the common opinion
Better mistress could not become a queen anymore than a wild Thief would become a game warden
The telegraph that's in those dark years
Such sounds no longer exist
Josh Charles
The Eternal heir to the throne
Has long since recovered from the negative image of his time married his childhood sweetheart
And the British
Accepted it
In the popularity scale
Although the Prince of Wales ranks behind his son William
. what the voices
But he should renounce the throne
Silencing more and more
Dr. Miller would be a charleses side when he became king
. however
She would probably not be called King consort
The palace signaled in advance
But only Prince consort
Princess Diana's friend on their last conversation
Her passion for Dodie and how dance helped her through hellish divorce
Choreographer Derek Deane
Who bonded with Diana over a shared love of ballet
As spoken of the remarkable change in her after she divorced Prince Charles
Dance Maestro Derrick Dean stared across the table at his glamorous lunch companion and instantly knew this was a woman who
Had changed forever
Carefree and relax
Princess Diana had just finalized her divorce from Prince Charles
And there was no wiping the smile from her face
As she sat in a restaurant in central London she excitedly shared her plans for the future
It is a moment that Derek will never forget
But it's also one that will forever be bittersweet
A new Diana was born
Says Derek
One free of pain and sorrow
She now had a future
Or so she thought
A year on from that lunch on August 28th
1996 Diana was gone
No
20 years on
Derek still struggles to accept his beloved friend is dead
Derek
A dancing choreographer in X director of the English national ballet
Became one of Diana's closest friends
Due to her love of ballet
She headed straight to the English national ballet performance of Swan Lake at the Royal Albert Hall on the day she divorced
Charles
After the performance Diana
10:35
And Derek enjoyed lunch
Derek says
There was no more drama
She had lost a lot of the burden that weighed her down
Derek's recollection is just one of a series of remarkable memories that he reveals today
In a moving interview he also tells of the last conversation he had with Diana shortly before her fateful trip to pair
He tells how she described the period with Dodi fade is her Summer of Love
Derek also revealed she turned to dance to get through her hellish marriage to Charles
And he tells how the heartbroken Royal would constantly cry during her honeymoon because she knew Charles was in love with Camilla
Who went on to become his second wife
Reminiscing about their celebratory lunch
Derek says
On the day her divorce was made official
Diana visited one of our shows
Which really shows the connection she felt to our art and how it come to her
After the performance we done
Like always
She appeared strong
Never complained
No More Drama
She had lost the burden that weighed her down in a new Diana was born
Free of pain and sorrow
It was clear all this had made her stronger
She now had a future
Or so she thought
It took 5 minutes and cost just 20 pounds for Diana and Charles to legally divorce in a dingy london-based
Smith office
6 weeks earlier Diana had been in floods of Tears as the first stage of her divorce was granted
During her lunch with Derek she was still wearing her wedding ring
But Derek observed how the princess transformed from a mousy little girl to a swan with confidence
He explains
Her divorce really changed her
She became more confident
A true change from the woman that got to know 6 years before
Right after her engagement to Charles
We met after a performance at the Royal Opera House
She was so quiet
A mousy little girl excrutiatingly shy and very insecure
I got to know a very different Diana when she became a patron of my English national ballet
We share the same sense of humor and could really make each other laugh
She trusted me and could be herself with us
To us
The team
The dancer she wasn't a princess
She was just Diana
She didn't have an attitude
She didn't do protocol
She was open kind and friendly to everyone
She also love to come to our rehearsals and I never knew her, then when she immersed into our world
She was a rock to me in my work
She was so interested in supportive of my creative process and ideas
The older she got the less of a quiet insecure little duck she became
No
She grew into a swan with confidence and I admired her for that
Having that strength and courage when her life was so tough at that time
Following her divorce
Diana went on to find love with Dodi
The son of business tycoon Mohamed Al faid
And Derek Delights and how happy his close friend had become as she enjoy the Summer of Love
Kisses
Shortly before she died she visited my staging of the biggest Swan Lake in the Royal Albert Hall
Not knowing it was the last Valley she would ever see
She was very positive about the rest of her life
She knew what her mission was doing charity work in helping bring peace
She was dating Dodi and he was good for her
He protected her
It was a Summer Romance
I knew he would never be her new husband
But they had a wonderful time
She enjoyed his company and she felt safe
Derek continues
This was the last time I saw her
We had plans to meet again but it wasn't to be
She was going on holiday to the south of France to celebrate son love and freedom
She went to St tropez in August
I'm there too and we plan to meet up
But the princess left for Paris telling Derek
I'll See You in September at your next premiere
I'm looking forward to it
Derek says
Those words never stop haunting me
On August 31st 1997
Diana
36
And OT
42
Were fatally injured in a car crash in the Pont de l'alma tunnel in Paris
Derek says
When we heard we were all in shock and I Cry
Reminiscing on their shared love of ballet
He reveals how Diana turn to dance to get through her hellish marriage
The heartbroken Royal confided in him about how she would constantly cry during her honeymoon because she knew of Charles is
Feelings for another woman
Derek says
She should have never married Charles
Marriage was hellish
It was one dramatic moment after the other
It was just a hurricane of grief because Diana realized that the real love of her husband's life was Camila
She said
I cried all through my honeymoon
I was so tired because of all the bad things around me
During that time full of depressions in tears she got thin
They could see her bones
The doctors just gave her pills instead of really taking care of her
All everyone wanted was a quick fix
It was Diana herself who took charge of her recovery and confronted Camilla
Camilla said something like
What are you so worried about
Everyone adores you
You're on a pedestal
You got everything you want
To which Diana said
Yes
But you've got my husband
Soon after that they divorced in for her that was such a release
Last month Channel 4 screen the documentary
Diana
In her own words in which the princess
Films privately by her voice coach in 1992 and 1993
Describe the devastation in misery caused by her husband and his married mistress conducting their adulterous Affair behind her
Back
Since then Apple has revealed that more than two-thirds of the British people are opposed to Camilla becoming Queen
Now Derek is restaging Swan Lake in the ornate Royal Theater care in Amsterdam
It is the same version he staged in the year Diana died in the last Valley she ever saw
Derek has dedicated the performance to her
He says
With her hectic life and being the most famous woman in the world at that time
Ballet was a true escape for Diana
With us she stepped into a world of beauty
Valley lifted for mentally
After the show's she would always talk to the dancers and we would have dinner together
She always told me everything
He adds
I miss her Aura and her smile
When she entered a room it was as if a light went on
I miss her loving
Caring nature that was so evident when she talked
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